I saw this question pop up in a Facebook group surrounding dating and spirituality: “Tips on keeping your vibration high when you’re going on a lot of dates with a lot of new men? Some of these men are so full of it and spiritually unconscious that I feel my vibe go down after interacting with them. Does that mean I’m spiritually weak?“
In this article I answer the hot topic and frequently asked question “Why do I keep meeting and attracting emotionally draining and low value men?”.
Beliefs and Assumptions
If you keep encountering “spiritually unconscious men” that are toxic, check your beliefs and assumptions about men in general.
Some questions to ask yourself are:
– Do you believe that it is possible to meet the type of men that you want to meet?
– Are you assuming these men don’t exist in your area?
– Do you feel worthy of this type of man (not a trick question)
– The information that you consume, what is it telling you? Is it content about good men, healthy relationships and partnerships?
– Do you get feelings of jealousy when you see couples thriving?
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Watch your Inner Conversations
What inner conversations are you having with these types of men – as in: how much head space do you give them?
Oftentimes we spend so much time talking and thinking about what we DO NOT want, that it is inevitable to show up in our reality.
Check your focus and headspace
Try to focus more on the type of men that you want to meet (with your inner and outer speech).
Whenever you talk to your girlfriends, refrain to particpate in conversations that talk about how bad men are, bad relationships, bad dates etc.
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Do not get “contaminated”
Do not let these men energetically “contaminate” you further.
This means that: if these types of “bad” men show up in your reality, based on your subconscious beliefs and assumptions – see it as feedback to turn within and tune into what you want.
Whether it be a loving man, manifesting a generous man, a spiritually mature man – whatever floats your boat.
Focus on what you WANT.
With these steps your dating experience is bound to change! You will start to see evidence in your reality when you make that inner shift.
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You are NOT weak
An you are absolutely NOT emotionally weak. You have simply temporarily forgotten the power that you have within you.
The power that created this universe and makes everything come and go.
Time to step into your power and create your hearts desires.
You know deep inside this is true!
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Hope this helps you on your journey of becoming your best, most radiantly magnetic self!
Light and love,
What do you think?