TRIGGER WARNING: Abuse
This week I received an anonymous question from one of the Glamifest Your Dream Life Group Members on how you can use the Law to heal a past traumatic experience, specifically sexual abuse.
In the below article I have my take on the cause of abuse and how you can best tackle this with the law.
I will also tackle controversial questions often avoided by most coaches.
Did I Attract it?
Let me start to say that the “Law of Attraction” is a misleading term.
It can actually cause victims on abuse to feel like they somehow were asking for the abuse, which is incorrect.
As I explained in my introduction video on how to apply the Law, we have the conscious and the subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind is impressed with the negative seeds as we know, and as I explained these seeds are not only planted by YOU.
They are planted by society, your family, friends, abusers around you, teachers – anyone or experience you come across in life.
Now, in the case of CHILDREN – you still very much reacting from your subconscious. The older you get – the more you learn to act from your conscious mind.
Now, as a CHILD – you do not know right from wrong and your subconscious is highly susceptible to outer influences (seeds).
WHERE and WHOM planted the seeds can be a task in itself to figure you – which is reserved for therapy.
The WHY – we cannot answer. This is a part of the horrors of life and is very unfortunate when these things happen to us.
What is the Past?
Here is where it gets interesting:
Time is nonlinear (see my last live) and you CAN revise the past.
Yes, I might have some people coming for me telling me that it means the victim is not acknowledging the abuse – this is incorrect.
The victim in question can choose to not let the past determine her future.
Why Revise?
Because the perpetrator often moves on while the victim is left behind broken and vulnerable.
Taking action by having a DESIRE to get out of that state is a tough but necessary thing to do.
I KNOW how hard it is, especially if you have suffered (in silence) for so long.
We can choose to shed the old skin (Neville says be thee as wise as serpent) and step into a new STATE.
The revision will help you with no longer identifying with what happened to you and become mentally and emotionally resilient.
Check out this video to understand how revision works.
Trust me, I have been through it and can attest that it works.
Can you Prevent Future Abuse?
Most importantly you will shield yourself from this ever repeating itself in the future if you choose to leave this out of your reality.
As an activist for the protection of vulnerable children that have not only been abused, but also trafficked – I had a HARD time dealing with this.
Now I have revised in such a way that I use my passion to help more women and children to take life into their hands and feel in control again.
As I have voiced in my last Coaching for Charity event, I am a big supporter of the Free a Girl Foundation. An association that helps rescue young girls (some as young as 5 years old) from forced prostitution.
IMPORTANT NOTE: I am PRO therapy. It is important to seek professional help when you feel lost and not in a good place. For me personally, once I accepted my power and actively started applying the law – I see how it can go hand in hand with therapy. Sometimes it is important to speak to someone to feel heard and identify what exactly happened and what your feelings are.
From there you can work on your fears and beliefs surrounding men and trust – as these are seriously damaged when we experience things like this.
If you want urgent help, feel free to reach out to me directly to schedule a one-on-one meeting where we can address your underlying issues and work out a plan to work on your bright future – free of the former chains of abuse.
For some inspiration, check out the following story of “How a Woman Went From Poverty And Abuse to Success“.
Light and love –
Lexi Glam
Marieke
April 26, 2020So when I want to act if I was not abused as a child, I have to make new memories About my past as if it was good?