Advice Every Woman Needs to Hear – Ginie Sayles Gives Her Take on LOA

If you are a single mother, or a single woman who currently feels like there is NO way for you to Glamifest a fabulous life…

READ ON..

In the interview, Ginie gave a rare and detailed insight into how she applies visualization, affirmations, keeping her faith and has generously shared insightful tips about how to overcome obstacles you might meet among the way.

The Mother of the Level up Community

Many of you might already be familiar with Ms. Sayles, as she is considered the “mother” of the level up community.

Ginie Sayles was one of the first and few women who dared to write a book for women who were in search for a better life for themselves and their significant others.

Ginie also gives back – she assigned all her author’s royalties on “How To Marry The Rich” to create The Ginie Sayles Scholarship For Single Parents of Pre-School Children available at Angelo State University in San Angelo, Texas, where she went to school.

What I admire most is that Ginie is very open about herself, her aspirations to do better and how she leveled up in pursuit of her goal. Ginie’s book made the concept of “upgrading your life” accessible to all.

Thanks to Ginie, I understood that the only way to truly level up your life and connections is to embrace your uniqueness, cultivate your own interest and qualities while being okay with wanting the best for yourself.

This not only includes men, but also in friendships and familiar ties.

We are extremely grateful for Ms. Sayles to have taken the time to answer burning questions surrounding leveling up utilizing the Law of Attraction.

The Interview

Ginie Sayles: Before I begin answering your questions, I want to compliment you on your blog and your work. You have a natural ability to create an attractive layout that invites people to ‘want to’ discover your interesting guests and what they have to share.

I am particular about accepting an interview. I do like what you are doing and why you are doing it. Sometimes, we have no idea where our work can lead. Keep that in your heart.

• Question: How did the use of affirmations change your life? 

Ginie Sayles: Positive Faith Statements changed my life by changing my personality into an open, happy expectation of good. We often get what we expect.

People responded positively to my open personality with opportunities I would not have had before. Positive Faith Statements built my Faith in life; and it attracted good, like a magnet.

• Question: What role does faith play in achieving your dream in your opinion?

Ginie Sayles: Faith is Everything and Faith is Action. If people don’t have Faith in something, they don’t act on it. If they do have Faith in something, they take Faith, which sometimes means taking more Action.

• Question: What role does visualization play in achieving rich and lofty goals?

Ginie Sayles: Visualization can take many forms.

1. Positive Affirmations generate a verbal level of ‘hearing’ your words which often projects happy images.
2. Hypnosis sessions or self-hypnosis lessons also generate effective visualization.
3. ‘Practice Situations‘ generate visualization in order to pretend or ‘act out’ a situation ahead of time. When I was learning something new, I practiced it at home for a few minutes each day so that I could do it confidently whenever I needed it.

Anytime you make plans, that is a form of Visualization, Affirmation, Self-direction, and the Faith of Action.

So, Affirmation, Hypnosis, Practice Sessions, and Visualization are interactive.

• Question: How did you manage to keep a positive mindset despite not being where you want to be?

Ginie Sayles: A positive mindset comes from doing something you love to do. I found a goal I wanted to achieve and I stopped working on anything I did not love doing.

Then I worked on my goal every single day because it was something I loved doing. It changed my life.

• Question: How do you stay patient when things are not going exactly as you wish?

Ginie Sayles: Realize how much you are actually accomplishing each day by jotting it down before you go to bed. Read it the next morning before you start your new day.

Many people do this and become successful. It may surprise you to see how much you are accomplishing and what a winner you really are.

It keeps you motivated.

• Question: How do you advise women to deal with family members who tell them their goals are “impossible?”

Ginie Sayles: I have written “The Secret To Success Is The Word ‘Secret‘” —

If you don’t tell anyone what you want or what your goals are, they cannot undermine you or do things to sabotage your dreams.

Never, never tell anyone— especially not family members—what your goals are.

Family members may love you, but they have their own self-limitations they unwittingly impose on you.

Some of them have their own agenda for your life.

The message they may be subliminally sending you is that you must not rise higher than they have risen or live any way but the way they want you to live…

And, inside, you may be waiting for their permission, which they will never give.

In my book, How To Meet The Rich For Business, Friendship, or Romance, I suggest not living in the same neighborhood or town with family. They do not need to know your friends or dates or anything.

If they ask about your life, be totally vague and keep them talking about themselves.

You must own your own life and never give anyone access to your goals.

Let them simply see your success AFTER you succeed.

• Question: In the current dating climate, women are constantly hearing that “good men do not exist,” how do you recommend women to overcome this limiting belief?

Ginie Sayles: Cosmopolitan Magazine wrote a Cover Story article about my How To Marry The Rich book and my advice to constantly say to yourself, “Men are Wonderful! I am Wonderful! Sex is Wonderful!” (those are the 3 components of a relationship).

After the article, women throughout the USA, Canada, and England, where I gave my seminars said to me, “I tried saying your words and it worked!”

In my own case, I found saying those words attracted men who were wonderful for me.

There are more wonderful men (not perfect, but wonderful, like you and me) than any other kind.

Refuse to agree with friends who are bitching about men.

Love men in general. And I suggest never settling on one man until the day he actually marries you.

Keep your dating life full of new men.

• Question: Many of our readers are single women and mothers who want to manifest a luxurious lifestyle. Do you have any tips or recommendations for them?

Ginie Sayles: Live in rich neighborhoods, even if you live in an attic. You are visible to them in the rich neighborhood’s Starbucks, banks, et cetera.

This also puts your children in the best school districts – you meet parents of the students and some are divorced.

And go to clubs or parties where they go!

Remember, I went through college as a single mother on welfare and a student loan.

We never received any money from my baby’s father.

After I finished, we moved to a prosperous city, lived in a tiny apartment in an upscale neighborhood, made friends with women who lived in the area and women who gave upscale parties—and through such a party, I met a rich oil man who paid off my entire college loan and other perks.

Alexis G. comment: “See how the bridge of events unfolded for  Ginie to meet her husband?”

I would not have had such opportunities if I had not ‘positioned’ myself to be where the Rich were. — Also jobs in financial districts or as a hostess at posh restaurants paid off for me.

• Question: Do you have any further recommendations that may benefit the readers?

Ginie Sayles: Amazon sells my videos, audios, and books.

All my seminars are on video including Power Flirting, How To Marry The Rich, and Writer’s Block Is A Crock are on video, and my books are on audio as well as on Kindle or paperback.

My book, The Seduction Mystique (the publisher named it) has a lot of fans who found that it made their lives more effective, helped to build their self-esteem, and to enjoy relationships that can end in marriage.

We want to again thank Ginie for her generosity in sharing these tips with our readers, of which many can relate to her story.

Ladies, take it from Ginie (as former a single mother on welfare and a student loan) to see that you CAN create the life you KNOW you deserve.

Take this article as a source of inspiration for you to not give up on your dreams.

As Ginie said, do not let your friends or family members decide the limitation on your aspirations – only YOU can decide and be in charge of your future.

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Light and love always,

Alexis G.